My attitudes towards work has changed a lot over the years. At graduation, I had the usual, "Get into big corporation and work hard" mentality. Over the years, that has changed and mellowed a lot as I have worked with and in several large and dysfunctional organizations. I have come to figure out what I wanted out of life and what type of organization would best suite my needs. I have also learned to laugh at the misconceptions that I had at graduation.
That's why articles like this annoy me. Entitled "4 Things You Should Never Say to the CEO", it gives readers the impression that they must work in fear of the single mistake that will destroy their careers and ruin their lives forever. It suggests that CEOs/bosses are like Greek gods, capricious and unpredictable. Employees, even Vice-Presidents, must tremble in fear.
In the current recession fearing climate, this article and many others like it give the impression that the employee is little more than a slave. They live in fear for their jobs, work only because they have no other choice and are at the mercy of their bosses. Unfortunately enough, too many believe this. There are too many people out there working under miserable conditions and accepting abuse that they should not. The term wage slave exists for a reason. Nothing could be further from the truth.
We are all free beings and we should act like it. In my opinion, there are a few things that distinguish a free being from a wage slave:
- Financial Independence
This is the most critical part of being free - you must believe that you are. No matter what you encounter, you always have a choice and you _choose_ to be where you are. No matter what, there is always another option. It might not be any more pleasant than where you currently are at, but you chose to take this option rather than one of the many alternatives
This is liberating in a few ways. Firstly, since the choice is yours to make, you are free to unmake your choice or to choose something better if things change. If your boss or co-worker is an unbearable pain, then do something about it! You have many options, including switching jobs. You are never truly trapped.
Second, by realizing that you chose this option out of many others, you keep your eyes open for other potentially better choices that come by. Too many people fail to pay attention and miss the many other better opportunities out there.
Third, since it was a choice, you know your reasons for staying in this job. You know what benefits and drawbacks of this choice as opposed to the others you could have chosen. This reminds you of the positive reasons why you are here, to balance any potentially negative reasons.
Finally, knowing that its your choice makes it your responsibility. For many, this means that instead of passively accepting, they are constantly looking for ways to improve their situation.
Many people say that they must stay at their jobs because they feel they are dependent on the pay check. They cannot quit because the loss of income would be disastrous to them.
Financial independence is the solution to that. It's unfortunately far too large a subject to be properly covered here. However, you do not need full independence to be free. You merely need a sufficient buffer to cover you until you have secured another stream of revenue. Often a reserve cash buffer of six months salary is more than enough for this.
Building this reserve takes some effort of course but for most, it is quite achievable. It requires discipline, sacrifice and living within one's means. However, the feeling of liberation and freedom when you have achieved it is worth it. The idea that you can quit the next time someone attempts to mistreat you at your job gives an immense feeling of satisfaction and confidence.
Finally, being really good at what you do opens up a lot more options. Even during a recession, all the competent people I knew were in demand and able to find employment with ease. The market for good people is always tight, no matter how tough it may be for others.
Once again, volumes can be written about the need for constantly improving one's skills and ensuring they are relevant. Just do it. Keep improving and your ability to earn will increase too.
This has a side benefit of reducing your need for financial independence. The better you are, the less financial reserve you need. It is also easier for you to earn money and save it.
Everyone's starting point in life is different. Not everyone has the same array of choices and some are more fortunate than others. That said, it is still our choice and still in our power to make a difference in our lives. We do not have to take the abuse that dysfunctional organizations dish out.
This blog post started as a rant against the poor way many organizations/managers treat their people - as slaves, not as free humans. However, this condition will last for as long as we allow it. As long as enough humans accept abuse and slave-like treatment from their employers and managers, this situation will not change.
If you are unhappy with the way you are being treated, you have to demand better treatment for yourself. However, you can only do this after making sure you are in a position to make these demands. Attitude, financial independence and ability. Get to work collecting them :)